Just as one would not expect their doctors or supermarkets to provide them with their products or services for free, one should not ask for free energy work without respecting the parameters of payment and honouring the services that the healer provides.
Below are a few of the realities that people do not talk about when they heal you. They do, however, go through many of these as they learn boundaries, strengthening skills and clearing energy tools to protect themselves and their loved ones.
Energy work takes a toll on the spirit of the one doing the healing.
~SO many people flippantly say that one can learn to step away...and to some extent that is true...but only to a certain extent. You cannot do energy work without getting your soul dirty...it is not all about only sending healing and stepping away. You need to attach and engage and committ to working on a level that breaks through dimensions and many boundaries. It is not easy. Only a real healer knows this and it is why some have such strict boundaries (and high prices) and why some step away away from healing work. It takes a huge toll on your energy to attach to someone else's energy and get your hands dirty and do some shifting around...
Energy work does not stop after the session
~ENERGY work goes on long after the session is over. Don't kid yourself that it is a one-time offer and that the healer walks away without firther engagement. They may not tell you that they are continuing to set energy in motion, but if you are looking for healing, it requires a healer that can raise your energy to where it needs to be and tap back in if needed to refresh that level. At times, this is done benevolently, upon a request in a daydream or during sleep...and their energy taps back in when you call. Often when your soul reaches back in touch with theirs, they will contact you and send healing, raised energy to help yours go back to its place of healing, without you ever knowing that they are still working for you.
Healers ARE putting themselves at risk.
~ATTACHMENT does not mean that they are clinging to you. Attaching to your energy means looking into it. If the healer is not fully protected or in any way ill when they do their work, you can out them at risk of any untoward attachments that are lurking in your energy...kind of like exposing your doctor to the germs at the doctor's clinic. While the doctor or healer might become stronger with time and develop an amount of immunity to germs and energies, they can still get sick from your energy. Spirits can also come looking for the healer who expelled them from their host and look for a new playmate as such, causing torment, illness and longterm clearing needs for those around the healer. Not all egos are ready to heal and let go...they can zap and bite and kick and tear at the aura of the healer, like an untrained dog.
REAL Healing is not like buying a new toy...it happens across all dimensions and space...you get its benefit forever....you take it with you when you leave the earth...!!
~Maybe if people realised that fact, they would be more respectful of the fees being charged by healers and less worried about holding onto their cash to be saved for ego needs like buying the next new car, phone, bottle of wine...why is it that your vices can be purchased so easily but your energy healing cannot? Is your soul not worth it? If you really wnat to heal, is it not worth finding a good healer, one that will teach you the hard lessons as well as heal your souls on levels you may not comprehend during this earth lifetime?
So the next time you think of engaging with a healer and they give you a price, rather than dismissing the person as a mney grabber...ask yourself why you think so little of your soul work that you can dismiss one willing to attach and engage with your neergy in order to help you with your soul's divine healing...Please keep these little tidbits of information in mind...they might be asking for a fee, but no amount of money could ever pay for what you are actually getting in return!!